Where Are We Going?

Where are we going? What are we doing?

What is our goal? What are we competing for?

Friends let us think of what, why and where of ourselves.

Men and women are the two precious creations of God. Both have special qualities. They are not made for any comparison. A comparison arises when one of the species thinks superior or the other thinks inferior. A woman bears a child, rears the child, nurtures the child, nourishes the child. She is empowered with tremendous emotional energy, a heart full of love that transforms a child from a plain white paper into a book of wisdom. A man and woman are complete package for what they are made for. Man is known for his muscular energy while the woman is fragile and stands as an epitome of love.

The Man is made to stand tall and tough in all odd situations, work for uplifting the child, balance all the odds and evens, secure the family in all situations. He is also as important as a mother for the healthy and harmonious development of a child.

Both men and women play an equal role to give birth to a child which is the most beautiful creation of nature. The ultimate goal is to lead a peaceful and happy life.

Today the scenario has changed. Both work for want of more comforts, more money, more social adaptation and secure mutual self-respect and also as per the demand of the society.

When women try to compete with men, works to earn, somewhere she starts adopting tough situations, she handles pressures and slowly her time gets divided inside and outside her house which somewhere imbalances her core responsibility of keeping her child emotionally secure. In this situation either the child is overpoured with emotions or ignored of everything which leads to a lot of problems. The growth of the child is somewhere incomplete and now the problem of getting the child into a socially reputed position becomes a challenge for the parents. Along with the jobs, a new struggle starts in their life.

Ultimately the question arises for what are the parents working. Are they just working to improve their social status? Are they really happy attending late-night parties and enjoying name and fame? Are they able to pay the debts of their parents who are the sole cause of their lives and achievements? At least are they giving enough time to their children? Are today's children getting the opportunity to feel the warmth of their parents and grandparents?

Less comfort to the child is ok but think when the child does not get enough time of parents? We all are always trying to provide what we were not provided with, to our children. Are we trying to provide what our parents gave us? Is today's child carrying the cultural capital of the quality, which we got from our parents, our joint families, our societies and communities? These are a few questions to ponder?......

Friends, today we have a greater responsibility, as we are living in a mobile era where friends are more but real friendship is less. Where information is more but real guidance is less. Where knowledge is more but it's correct practical use is less. Every child is carrying a mobile but its right use is done by less.

This is to be thought by all.....Where are we going?