Choose thy love- love thy choice

What happens when puberty finally hits the human beings? Besides physically changing, or internally growing there is a spark of strange hormonal reactions within the body. Which are not only responsible for flourishing us biologically but affects our psyche too. And no one can understand this any better than our young, dumb and broke pubescent. We start to thrive our emotions for others besides our parents or siblings. It's a troublesome, tiresome, quarrelsome and even delight some for us. We do not love every second of our teenage life but we also do not hate it at all. Exploring ourselves to finally finding a person where our happiness resides plays a critical role in teen romance. We all go through this teen romance phase, if not directly, at least one of our pals drags you into there story. I mean that's how you meet people or even feel like a third wheel. Having a partner makes you feel homely and fighting feels like the end of the world to some people. You see, the main concern? Overthinking! Why they do so? well i understand thinking from the worst of situation, makes you mentally prepared for the result. But the reason is the agonies of being rejected or even not accepting the results which are not in your favor. Teen romance is supposed to be pleasing and not making it hard on yourself. Infatuation or love cannot be forced. It's not like they say in the movies, that they spent there last high school year and went to Georgetown to be with each other. Just Snap Out of It! Happiness can be found in things like getting back together again or making things work better than before with your special ones. Give it a try and plan your ass off to make it work yet again. As I said earlier teen romance could be bitter but adding lumps of sugar could make it sweet. And those lumps will only bloom if you add the ingredient of desire to your sweet little romance. Another thing which creates turbulence in our lives is the acceptance by our parents. It's hard on them to accept that their children are growing up. Well nothing is going to stop us from flowering but they try to control our lives This starts the imbalance. Interventions in freedom and getting opinions on our privacy by elders makes us uncomfortable. This distances us from our parents and our partners too. Sometimes our parents are also the cause of separation from the people because they simply cannot handle and welcome our adulthood. But its not horrible because it is also responsible for making us think things clearly and wisely. There are times when we become used to some gizmos. Like getting a text from a person, meeting a guy regularly or eve thinking that we are in love. Alert! It's obsession. Fixation is extremely injurious to mental health. We get in a relationship, we talk. we engage physically, or sometimes we fight. but we often forget, if it is love or obsession of at least being with someone. When it gets over it usually disappoints the serious person. But its life and we totally need to sort out our priorities. After all obsession blows off soon. Loving yourself is more important to overcome such teenage crisis. Its possible that you find love at such a young age, and if you do, you should take it all along through your life and you'll find that person walking side by side if the feeling is mutual. Generation Z doesn't understand much of Shakespeare,but one of his quote deeply speaks to them. Love is heavy and light, bright and dark, hot and cold, sick and healthy, asleep and awake, its everything except what it is! But we chuckle heads, do what we want to do, that is freaking obsession.We must enjoy our teen lives, and be less worrisome about the outcomes. This period of our lives must have subtle love or not at all. Yet we are supposed to or must have fun and not be reckless but be jolly good.