who is my mother?

I want to ask a question Who is my mother?

The lady who gives me space in her womb

Or

The last who carries me for nine months

Or

The last doctor who hold me first

Or 

The nurse aunty who hid me in clothes

Or 

The lady whom I will call dadi

Or 

The lady whom I will call Nani

Or 

The aunty who keeps me with her all-day

Or 

The aunty who takes care of me when my parents do the job 

Or 

The lady who takes care of me from the call

Or 

The lady who is like my maa, my maasi maa.