Hallucinating, Are You?
Hallucinating, Are You?
There was a time, I would hear my child say,
“Mumma! Dada’s asking you to hurry up”.
“Dada wants me to accompany him to grandma’s”
Or sometimes,
“Today dada’ll help me with the homework”.
Her constant chants of my husband’s name freaked me out.
You would ask me, “What is wrong with that?
She just wants to be with her dad”.
Let me tell you why
Hearing her utter his name gave me goosebumps.
The reason: my husband didn’t live with us.
He was miles away, toiling hard to fend for us.
He hardly came home once a year.
So how is it my daughter
Talked to him all the time?
Claimed to sleep beside him
And claimed he accompanied her?
Her constant chants of my husband’s name
Had affected me deeply,
Had taken a toll on my mental health
So much, that at times
Even I felt like he roamed about
In the house.
In the kitchen while cooking
I could feel him standing behind me
Waiting to surprise me with a hug.
I could sometimes feel his touch.
At other times, I could see him
Standing beside me the moment I wake up,
Knocking the wits out of me.
I would sometimes scream in shock.
The next second I would realize
My growing levels of foolishness
And try to calm my escalating fear.
Is my house haunted?
Has the ghost taken my husband’s form?
Would it hurt my daughter?
Would it hurt me?
I’ve seen in horror movies
Ghosts in haunted mansions
Target the innocence of kids
To fulfill their evil plans.
When they no longer need them
They push the kids towards doom.
Would he do that to my child?
With all these fears,
I was living a life of horror,
Swimming and drowning in it at the same time.
Pondering over this,
I was transported back to my childhood.
At night, I would sleep beside grandma
On her charpoy in the middle of the hall.
When I awoke in the middle of the night,
I would see a man with a contorted face
Standing on a ladder right beside me
Repairing the fan above my head.
On the compound wall squatted a lion.
Its mane sparkling brightly in the moonlight,
Eyes radiating evil and hunger.
I would quickly shut my eyes
Drift back to sleep in a while.
This happened every night.
The same man, the same fan and the same lion.
I didn’t dare mention it to anyone
Lest these would harm me.
I lived with this horror into my childhood
Until it began to wane off.
Is it the same thing my daughter was undergoing?
Or was there a real threat in my house?
I took her to a psychiatrist who educated me
Childhood hallucinations are common
And would subside with her growth just like mine did.
My daughter felt her dada’s presence
As she missed him terribly.
The strong emotional urge had led her
To imagine he was always beside her.
The news came as a huge relief
As I was equipped to deal with hallucinations.
But no way I could've dealt with ghosts.