Today's Younger Generation

Our parents and other elders think that student life is easy just because we don't have to worry about paying any bills or other adult things. They themselves went through these days but obviously in a very different way. Here we are going through these in another way, suffering through many things too. In today's generation we all know that young kids are in relationships going through breakup and all. Our parents don't understand that in their time it was fine that their parents were too strict to share everything with, but they had friend who were loyal. It's different now because if parents try to be like the way our grandparents were towards them then it won't be good for today's generation children specially teenagers. Teenage years are the best and the worst years of a person's life, we all know that it's almost impossible to find a true and loyal friend now a days because we all need someone with whom we can share everything, it's not possible to keep everything inside and go on and on after all though very slowly but will hurt us mentally in very bad way making us weak day by day. It will also affect our studies and physical health including our future very badly, the only way to fix it is to share everything with our parents because they are the only ones whom we can trust.

This requires parents trust and cooperation too obviously. Parents need to be easy going and free with the children atleast one of the parents must if both the parents can't become this way one of them needs to be strict then either mother or father one of them need to be in such a way that they don't need to ask about anything to their child, the child tells everything to them without any hesitation and fear.

The main reason today's generation is scared to share everything with their parents because there is a huge difference between these two generations. We are afraid of being misunderstood the most after all two different generations share two different point of views. Parents need to listen, think and try to understand their child's point of view before jumping directly to the conclusions. Parents need to reduce scolding and punishing their children, instead spending time and playing with them would be better it will help the children to be freer around their parents.

Especially single parents' children suffer the most mentally because no matter what we get or are provided with the absence of the other parent hurts. Single parent children suffer the most because the problems they face, and their parents face during their teenage years tortures these children to the core of their heart. Most of the parents don't understand this because they themselves are drowning in the worries of their children and their own problems that they fail to notice that as they have lost their partner their kid has also lost a parent. Most of the time it's scene that the relation between a single parent and their child is either good or bad because either the kid is very sincere and good at their studies or very bad at studies, but life is way too hard for average students especially when they suffer a set back because their set back breaks them and their parent together. During this time while they are broken unable to support themselves are expected to support their broken parents while most of the time the parent is unconsciously breaks the child even more. During this many times one of them gives up destroying both the lives. Single parent kids need to share every problem and other thing with their parent without any fear and try to understand their parents more. Whereas parents are requested to reduce sharing their life struggles with their child especially when they suffered a setback, they need to appreciate the small things their kid does. For example, if a person who is always scolded and punished for its mistake will never improve as the always being appreciated and rewarded for good deeds.

Thus, I request both the children and parents to try to understand each other's point of view, especially teenagers' parents need to be more attentive towards their children and try to understand them. Single parent and their kid need to spend most of their time together, understand each other and most importantly support each other because they only have each other.