My dream told me about the end of the relationship

It was a difficult partnership that I had at the time. My husband had many aspects of secrecy. This not only included women, but also regularly ran into trouble at work. And yet I loved him. I fought for everything to get better at some point. I haven't given up hope. My mind was telling me this man is not right for me. But my feelings spoke of the opposite. Sometimes I wonder if the relationship makes sense.

After two years, I made the first attempt to break out of the relationship. The decision should be pretty rational. My exit only lasted three weeks and then went back to him. It was the feelings again that prevented me from staying away. But it was precisely these feelings that began to change strangely. Even though I loved him, I sometimes wish he had a traffic accident. I was ashamed of these thoughts and didn't know why such ideas are in my head. Of course, my partner hasn't changed and I just wish I could turn off my feelings for him.

The dream of the end of the relationshipBut then one summer day I had a dream that kept me busy for a long time. In this dream it was winter and snow was falling. I saw myself, my partner and his dog sparing together through the winter landscape. My husband pulled a sleigh with him. Finally he stopped and pointed his finger at a mountain on the other side of the valley.

He wanted to climb up there and encouraged me to come with him. I shook my head vigorously and strictly refused. This action is far too dangerous because the whole mountain is covered with ice. “You will crash,” I prophesied to him. I also explained that the dog and I would stay here and not go. But my husband could not be deterred from his plan and decided to leave without us. I stopped and watched as he tried to climb this mountain. After a few meters, he slipped and fell down. He's certainly dead, I thought, and felt pity. Still, I didn't go to the scene of the accident and take a closer look at it. Because I didn't care about him at that moment. I felt relieved of a burden! That ended this dream.

The next morning I was very confused and wondered if this dream meant anything. Since I couldn't find a concrete answer, I tried to forget about the dream.

Half a year later, after this dream, it was winter. Snow fell. My partner made a strange statement about me. He indicated that I was cheating on him. That statement was utter nonsense. And yet I began to consider what was behind this statement. Because I am sure of my loyalty, but not that of my partner. So I suspected a new affair. For this reason I logged into his e-mail account and found what I was looking for. I read all the e-mails and learned that he had been leading a double life for six months. Immediately I was scared. Because this information meant that I had to end this relationship. But did I manage to resist my feelings this time?

The feelings were suddenly gone when I listened to myself, I discovered something special. There were no longer any feelings that prevented me from ending the relationship. The love was gone! I still didn't trust this emotional state. But even the next day, the feeling of love was absent. Then I took the risk and ended the relationship. When I was having this last conversation with my partner, I glanced out into the garden for a moment. There the snow fell incessantly and there were icicles hanging on the porch. My dream from then came back to me and I was amazed. That was the event I dreamed of!

The end of the relationship was fixed and I never went back to him. He left the dog to me because he couldn't look after him properly. Some time later I learned from friends that he had lost his good job because he had acted too risky. Was that the mountain from the dream that it fell from and that I warned him about? In any case, this event changed my perspective on dreams.

The dream as a message from the subconsciousI pay attention to my dreams and today I know that they can be messages from the subconscious. Access to my spiritual side also opened up with this knowledge. Dreams can sometimes be viewed as a kind of clairvoyance of future events. Because the subconscious holds information ready that remain closed to your conscious thinking. But not all dreams are messages from a possible future. If you are unsure, you should ask a professional dream interpreter who is familiar with the topic.

Because the dreams are seldom so clear that you can interpret them correctly yourself. Metaphors that symbolize a situation or a mood often play a role. The dream interpreter can analyze this metaphor and help you envision your dream.