Long Distance

” Movie Tonight “, she messaged.

” Why not “, I replied without having any second thought.

We were located at separate locations, a couple of weeks back I texted her; “I am going to visit your city, let’s catch up”. Long distance gives you space and helps to create bonding that get build with help of every text message which says “take care”. It might be single message but it have deep meaning. Journey from friend zone to being in relationship is sweetest thing ever. It is beautiful thing to know that someone is there for us, someone will stand for us.

Few people thinks long distance relationship wont work. There could be other distracting , tempting objects around us but it’s up to you. How you are connected with each other. Exchange of gifts, greeting cards and feelings for each other’s keep relationship alive. It doesn’t required expensive gifts to make it alive but it require a gift that connects you. Couple Coffee mug is one of them, its just mug but it gives feeling of having coffee together.

Once we were chatting at late night and I said, “ice cream khane ka maan kar raha yaar”. And exactly after 20 minutes doorbell rang where zomato guy delivered an ice cream ordered by her. Later we shared an ice cream over video call. That’s how technology helped us to stay connected .

At end it is important to have meaningful relationship.

-“Lets catch on MG road”, I took a cab and texted.

-“Sure”.

-“I am in Cab,”.

-“Pata hai, ab aa jao”

-“Don’t be late”

-“Nai re”

-“I am excited”

-“Me too”

-“Jaldi aana”

-“We are going to meet in sometime, still you are sending so many messages”

-“You know “

-“Bolo”

-“Sach batau”

-“Ha bolo”

-“Do you remember, when we met the very first time. “

-“Of course I remember”

-“It was a wonderful evening I ever had”

“That day, when I dropped you at your place.”

-Yes, I remember those moments, goodbyes are hard.

-That time I had thought to ask you, if I can hug you for being there for me. But I had a second thought that you might not like that because it was our first meet. I was never so comfortable with someone.

-Hahaha

-Haso mat (don’t laugh)

Sach bol raha (its truth ).

-What you think, what would have been my reaction if you had hugged me that time.

-It would have been positive. Because I felt some bond.

-Same here.

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– I don’t know-how would have reacted that time but it wouldn’t be negative.

...Big pause…