It Might Not Be The First!

“First love is unforgettable, first love is the most important, first love is amazing, there is no love like first love.” Okay, that’s enough to express about. Everyone will hear these words from your friends, colleagues, even from your life partners maybe everyone will experience love for some they live with the first, others it may not work out.

Everyone will fall in love once in their life. The moment you realize that you’re in love can really be the best feeling ever. It is because it was a feeling that you experience for the first time, it makes you feel powerful, motivated and maybe even like you want to shout “Yaasss!” from the rooftops – especially when you’re in love for the first time. That is why first love is something special, it may be a gift that will make your life happier – else it could be a lesson for life not to break again. People always say they find love, but they really find someone they can love. And then they choose to love, thus the love seems to be constant but that matter of fact is that it was not with the same person timely.

Sometimes falling in love seems entirely involuntary. Like breathing eating, drinking is involuntary. As we won’t choose to fall in love; even if we choose to we won’t voluntarily it again after a first attempt. These all happen naturally, as you love nature and although you may not choose to breathe, drink and eat, you can choose not to be. Sure, it’ll kill you, yes! There is always someone you’ll choose to love even if you don’t want to and someone is always there to love you even many left with reasons. But living life entirely void of love is a worse kind of fate that even killing yourself.

It’ll be even harder when your first love breaks. We never really choose to change relationships – but as time passes expectations overcomes relationships. When it overpasses love to an extent connection breaks. People don’t so much choose to love; they choose not to love. Again, this has more to do with the question rather than ourselves. If people don’t have qualities we believe are lovable, then we won’t love them, the expectation at its peak – love at its doom. As likely one never really chooses to die as they know it will be the end: it will come to you as it meant to be.

You’ll never forget your first love and it’s nice to be someone’s first, but it’s not everything. This blog is about “it means love after a heartbreak.”

When you have a heartbreak with you first love it’s not easy for you to overcome. Since, it gave you happiness, the feel of what love is at first glance. Also, at last, you may also experience sorrow. It is not meant to be the same for everyone to be with the person whom you fell first. It depends on each one of their understanding. There are many living a life with their love they’ve fallen first. More living even better life with someone else who has no way to be with their first.

It might not be your first love; but, love doesn’t depend on ranking; also, one can’t compare which is better. But, the real thing is they left you even though you may leave 1000 reasons to be with them. It may be anything but the relationship hasn’t worked out anymore. Even, when the memories kill you daily one must learn to let it go.

There is always someone there for you to love you unconditionally with all of what you are. But, it is not that easy to switch from one to another especially in love. All the feelings we had for one will not be the same for another. You can get unconditional love, you may now have 1000 reasons not to love them back but, they have only one reason to be happy with seeing you happy.

Our heart is always afraid as it won’t switch that ease also it is not ready to take another heartbreak. But, when it was not your first love, it will always be unconditional with all of what you are. This is all about the love we experience after a heartbreak. Taking it is only depends on you but, it will heal all the breaks in your heart. People always learn from their mistakes and they improvise themselves, likely when they make a mistake of a relationship it will give you pain, but you will become harder than before and a better version of yourself. Also, you will stay away from relationships – really it was because of pain you had before had made you harder not to be soft as before – but when you fall again love will be the same but you will be better enough to handle relationships.

“First, thousand reasons to reject one reason to hold; last, never expected a reason – just love.”

“It might not be your first; but, it is way better as it will be more meaningful.”