Down Memory Lane! Maze Gaon
Down Memory Lane! Maze Gaon
It was after a long time that I got an opportunity to go to Ambarnath.. a town once I lived, brought up and grown and cherished … sounds funny to say go an opportunity ….I always had an opportunity, time and resources but did not take that extra effort .. don’t know why .. Nevertheless that’s not the point .. the occasion this time was my school mates had arranged a get-together, you know social media is bringing us all together ..such a power that those who had never even conversed with each other are now friends for ever and greeting everyday on the social platform .. this is the best technology can do .. make friends meet virtually and stay in touch .. I had taken the half day out of my schedule ( not that I do any great on sunday but decided to come out of my shell and routine ) as it was a sunday, it was much easier ..was very excited to meet some of my mates after a long 30+ years in person and also go back to those good old days when we were all so innocent and so much limited in our vision that many of us had not seen world outside of our home, school and that town we lived in … The first stop that day was a double whammy ! my old place where I stayed and right behind the school, I studied and cleared my 10th grade …I was seeing each and every inch of the place around me .. Feeling nervous and in state of confusion as to why has it not changed so much and also feeling good that it is same as of my time! ..had to drop 2 of my mates and go to my other mates house, but stayed there for some time, sitting in my car ..and the memory flashed back …I felt I was happy here too then, but always felt something is missing and now when I am content with what I have achieved, still feel there is some void ..flashback brought memories of time I had spent with my friends, parents and fellow members of the building, some good, some not so good memories but overall realised it was all a good and peaceful life .. Moved on to another friends place before going to my school mates place, and saw the corner section of a garden, which had some place to seat for say was our regular spot to come together everyday.. now I wonder how we used to manage this … we were then a group fo 4 friends, very close group and used to meet almost every day .. used to chat for hours seating in line on that corner bench, typically from 7 pm to 8.30 pm in the evening .. we had no pagers, no cell phones to connect, even land lines were not so common, ( very difficult for the new gen to imagine as to how did we connect without these gadgets) but we used to see each other on time and at the same place …Remember lots of fun and moments we used to share .. it was much better that a group on whatsApp of the same members even today .. we hardly share any, but when we meet we find time is not enough … Moving on with those memories and meeting 2 of my mates and their families and taking blessings from their parents ..reached the get together venue .. it was all excitement in air, lots of familiar faces and but not able to put a name to the face, some of us have not changed at all .. a good sign of being evergreen …some changed beyond imagination, some names sounding so familiar but not able to locate in those good old school days, very emotionally filled gathering, introducing each other, remembering some by their famous characteristics, some by their peculiar style of talking or laughing .. we all were having good time, eating good snacks and food then after, some of us had some hidden talent, there was an impromptu display of talents like singing , poetry and sharing of experiences by few ..we all decided to be in touch ( of course virtually … I knew that some of us including me are going to be more active on the group for some time in immediate future ..) and also had some plans for next get together in some new place .. remembered those members who we missed or could not attend .. had few photo sessions and immediate upload for benefits of those who missed it ! .. Coming back home bit late in the night and hitting the bed, started thinking, if its only an hours drive why I have been keeping such a distance to the town I cherish so good memories? Mind was full of questions and emotions and kept me awake for more than 4 hours, making it tough to get up next day and start the routine … the question as to why I felt so deeply connected with the town always lingered in my mind for days after that event .. and finally found an answer .. lots of my friends when asked about their origin, talk fondly of their village or town they come from .. they have their parents and ancestor house there and feel very attached to the place …I always used to wonder, why I don't have such a place to mention .. I found an answer .. it is this town Ambarnath is my place .. Maze Gaon .. though I may not have my any close relatives or any house of my own, but My roots are deeply embedded, my memories are very much fresh in my mind, I feel going there, my school is very much there standing tall, the ground I played on the roads I walked along and my friends who I played with are still there ….this thought alone put me at peace and felt very good .. I shared this thought with Some of my mates and we agreed to have all Gaonkari meet up in Thane once in a while to rekindle memories of our town.. Aamche gaon!
