Sad Realization

Life evolves around the concept of

‘I, my, me and mine’

Where the gain is joy and loss is sorrow, certainty creates comfort and uncertainty fear.

We were educated and formed a taste for seeking pleasure and avoiding pain

And so we live a life driven by desire and fear based on the comforting memory of past pleasures and the fear of the unknown imagined future.

Great confusion is created

By making life ‘ours’ together with sensations, feelings, and emotions

Instead of understanding that all these are life- we don’t have, a life that we can lose but we are living, and life never dies but it changes all the time.

The person you are and were is gone forever.

There will never be another you, or another me by any stretch of the imagination

It is a Liberation

The doorway to Devine

A moment of mourning that's unknown

It's seen as a sad thing by most of the people on the planet.

It is seen as negative and people fear it because people don't actually live in the true sense.

It might sound bitter, but it is the truth.

An idea we hate of not existing

Out of fear

People romanticize death with religious stories of what happens to you after you leave this world

All that we are as an individual,

All of our thoughts, desires, knowledge will become nonexistent

It is really painful and depressing

To accept the fact

That all of us are basically nothing but chemical reactions happening in our brains.

No matter how successful, happy, unhappy, unsuccessful you are

In the end

There is going to be a tragedy which is death.

And then lots of SILENCE…

It is seen as sad by those who are clung to their life and don't want to die.

It is a truth no one wants to die whether a 5-year-old child or a 70-year old man.

This is a universal truth,

One who is born has to die someday.

Our life whirls between birth and death

Those who are ignorant toward life or have not dived deep into life,

They are afraid of it.

Reality - this is also a part of our journey.

Death is a ‘harsh’ reality.

Now the question is

Why do we call it harsh?

Death is inevitable, despite knowing this we cry when someone we loved dies.

The ‘harsh’ fact is that we cry or become sad is not because we’ve lost someone but because we fear being left alone in this world.

Spouses cannot attend each other funeral

Sisters cannot attend each other funeral

Brothers cannot attend each other funeral

Even the best of friends cannot attend each other's funeral

Death affects the living more than it does to the dead.

Often, we want more time with them

More joy, more laughter, more healing, and death makes those hopes impossible to fulfill.

We remember our good times with the deceased, knowing that they are now over; memories can be crushing.

The emotions felt depends on your view of the world.

Living comes from all the Various things and emotions there into the experience.

Feelings are created from our experiences in life.

A kiss from a parent, the loss of a job, the birth of a child.

There exist a plethora of emotions ranging from fear to joy

And while one could argue that

The purpose of living comes from all the various things and emotions

There are to experience

Wouldn’t you rather experience nothing?

There is a chance you will live a fulfilled and happy life and there is a chance you will not. There is a chance you will find love and comfort and there is a chance you will not. There is a chance you will be entirely satisfied by all you have accomplished and possess and there is a chance you will not.

What are the chances of getting all you want out of life?

Death is not only inevitable but irreversible too.

Once a person is gone, it's done.

You won't get any chance to talk to them again, or make merry, or make amends, or say sorry or just hear their voice again, it won't happen again.

The bird who never flew would fear death as it would be the ultimate thing for the bird to achieve.

The only way to get through its fear is to abandon its thought and pursue doing what is required to be done in this world

Enjoy the ride.

Feel the feelings and try not to believe the dramatic thoughts about it.

I'm glad that most people feel sadness in death, then we can avoid unnecessary heartache

Death is a reminder to the living of the unavoidable unknown future they also must face

I see this world as vastly imperfect not worth fighting to live in but a superior number of the world still daily cling to life. A person who has suffered all his life when faced with the prospect of death still begs for more time. A bizarre action. Maybe this is caused by the uncertainty surrounding reality after death I do not know. After all, people tend to fear what they do not understand.

It should be acknowledged and accepted that for most people death is a state of freedom even if they do not know it.

Consider a thing that has been taken away from you that you weren't ready to give ever! And you are not getting it back and there was only one in the whole world, so you don't get any replacement either. How do you feel? The same is with death

Death shouldn’t be seen as sad but; Life should.