We All Deserve Those Green Flags

Green flags seem unnoticed nowadays.

People say, healthy relationships are boring. But realise how someone makes us feel comfortable and secure, remembers tiny detail about us including our interest and giving us assurance even if we not asking for it. Someone we can be vulnerable with, we can be ourself, we can be genuine without disrespecting self. Someone who has clear and vivid plans about our relationship. Someone who respects our time and boundaries and understands that we have other priorities in our life. Someone who is investing time for us caring us and sees our flaws with acceptance. Someone who never let us sleep with a heavy heart or take advantage. Someone who communicates their thoughts because they care about our relationship; those disagreements are part of it and way it's healthy. Having someone who is good for our heart!

We are blinded by red flags because they are represented by the color of passion. We think, we can change them. We assume and hope that the love we give will be an enough reason for them to be better. We want thrill, excitement, we want someone's not boring & we forgot about peace. We forget about the love we deserve. We deserve a love that keeps us sane. 

We all do not deserve those red flags.

Tumpa Datta Gupta

Learning from Life... learning from people.