#My Dad My Hero

Our beliefs and culture have a conviction that there is a universal power which runs the universe and we all are small/minuscule atoms which are a part of the universal cosmos. Lord almighty has a manner of control on his beings and he has deputed care takers for different souls, So whenever a soul is born in terms of body - the atmosphere and the surroundings decide about his existence and life in years to come. Based on the karmas and history his subsequent years are characterized to suit the chapters of life destined for him/her. The umbilical cord is not only a few inches of biological obligation but is the essence of commitment, love and utmost care of Lord's blessing. Mothers are there 24/7 to take care of their offspring’s whether it is human or non human - but the real lessons of life and reality are designed by the father.

Father is the imparter of genes/culture/morals to the subsequent generations.

Humans are blessed with the best intellect and mind which makes them surpass other creatures in this world and humans have the best etiquette of memory ingrained in us. So when you are younger - your childhood is programmed in your mind for eons and these memories over a period of years convert in to our life treasures

Whenever you feel like spending your time and energy with your loved ones without expecting anything but love forms a platform of friendship. So spending time and moments of conversation are the priceless assets that form your treasures.

Distances breed love and in my case the assets that I have in terms of my healthy parents are my treasures - Karmabhoomi is your guide and legal geographical guide but the heart can travel anywhere anytime and anyhow. You can stop a human body but there is no stopping the human brain which travels to the loved ones in a second across the globe if required. This positivity that is vibrated from soul to soul is a very important part of our relationship. Sad guru has mentioned that the positive vibes that are transmitted from your loved ones and dear ones are as powerful as the blessings of GOD and makes you happy and stronger. MY day typically starts with prayers to the almighty and my prayers for the well being of my family and my parents in particular. And i thank LORD for keeping them safe and healthy. Once the life is over - there will be big lacunae in my lifestyle and thoughts.

My cherished moments of talk with my father are my priciest treasures and would do anything to preserve these valuables. The talks that I have with my father are always reverberating in my ears and heart and I ruminate the crux of the conversation for weeks together. The little piece of advice time and again that I get from him keep my mind rolling and helps me move ahead.

The other day we had a group of middle aged friends debating on the word ”DEFINE SUCCESS" and after a lot of deliberations and arguments all reached a conclusion that happiness amalgamated with content - is SUCCESS......

Which in my life i could correlate and add juxtaposition with my fathers' life.

Never has he complained about anything and always been content - which I try to always learn and imbibe from him which is difficult at times - but that is my biggest lesson from his friendship. We share several jokes, anecdotes, incidents, news morality lessons on family and international platforms with the same gusto. We do have differences in our thinking since we are two different brains but at the end of the day I consider my father as my friend, advisor, comrade and respectful advisor.

He always talked to me about these important things -

             Whenever I call him, he would be simply awfully pleased to have talks with me and for both of us it is the most Precious and pleasureful moments of our lives. His suggestions are the nectar drops of his whole life? He had seen much better people who loved each other without any decoction of False values when in this current times it is only money that has become the measurement tape of respectable persons .although he might be a really an outstanding criminal of the society.

         My dad wanted to go to Austin as my mother’s nearest sister Kiran Behl is settled there along with her family. My dad was also equally interested in meeting his sister-in-law and no Sooner we all reached there she and Ajay Behl was very pleased with our coming there. Both of them treated us as their most favourable guests but my dad formed a loveliest friend ship in them. Even when he is not there his fragrances still come back in their memories.

         He is always appreciated by all young people in the Bhavnagar garden and they love him the most sought after senior person who makes them aware of several erroneous Paths and constantly warns them to be careful. It is only because of him that one boy of twenty-seven was stopped from committing a suicide and he intervened and made four Boys here from consuming decoctions of betal, tobacco giving an illusion of joy. Stop taking these mixtures. Your teeth would be spoiled and you are wasting thousand rupees each month. He had also meddled between one married couple and being senior person the couple respected my intervention. The thought of divorce just vanished from their minds. The two Felt very obliged to save them from tragic disaster. He is a very valued person to those who are feeling frustrated for one or the other issues of their lives?

          I love him for his most friendly interaction not only with me but also with many other people there. In Pittsburgh as well there are my friends who regularly remember him for his most lovely social interaction. I must at this moment tell my readers the following very precious suggestions from my Dad my hero:

           

Take a decision in life either ways - Right or wrong the time will decide -- but do not be indecisive.

Never procrastinate - Procrastination could be suicidal - though I have not 100% digested it in my behavior as yet

Life is in circles so make sure that you walk on righteous paths to make sure your karma is running on the positive sides for years to come 

Value time more than anything - that could keep your clock ticking! Right things have to be done at right time - no use buying a motorbike for a 45 year old person - motorbike is justified at 20 years age only 

 Is he not a wonderful dad and also surely our family hero?