Hero Child Secret

Let the Self Belief … introduce you to yourself!!

A young kid in a decent small family with grandparents enjoys the best learning cultural and moral values and gets enough attention and pampering to nurture his childhood well....

Apart from these, literate parents teach the baby to do things on their own, which should be encouraged in the society!

"Now you have learned how to tie laces...Good!"

"My smart kid will now do this by himself! “Acclaimed father and appreciated his child in family dinner table....

Child behaved like, he has won the Medal and was eager to do this lace tying activity every day, maybe every hour...

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"Oh wow, see this child cuts nails on its own, everyone should try like this at home" teacher in class raised this child with a huge round of applause 👏 "

This belief development in the child's mind made him so confident that he started excelling in studies and sports activities...

He started taking more responsibility and ownership as his curiosity exploration led him to more appreciation thus his self-belief system started delivering more than he anticipated and he was enjoying this.

The most beautiful part of this story is that he himself didn't know how had these small incidents created him as an all-rounder performer in every field... His self-belief system was working for him!

Well, story doesn't end here -

His so-called close friends started following him and closely monitored his style as what usually happens!

 Once while after school going back home all friends were talking and discussing......

 "Hey why do you take more time, cutting for right-hand nails?" asked his best friend innocently

"True" another observer added” even your right leg shoes laces are not as perfect as the left one, why is it so? "

Our hero child smiled and said “you people are wasting more time watching me rather practicing yourself.. That so why you are losing your improvement and trying to find fault in me”

Everyone laughed and started showing their best-learned activity what they knew and left for home.

 This small discussion occurred for a minute but gradually crept in mind of the Hero Child ….. It kept on repeating in his mind and thus started inflating and he started calculating timings and perfections of both hands which were certainly uncalled for...

Days passed and Belief was working with the same intensity....

He could identify the difference! "Why this is happening?" "Have I lost the techniques?"

Has someone done something to me, why I not able to do with the same timings and perfection? "

 Trying to discuss with his friends who never took it so seriously, he ceased bragging about it and.. Guilt, fear started surrounding his confidence.

“It, as a law of belief system effected every performance he delivered.”

His academic and sports results were not so expressive this term and his friends were either sympathizing him else giggling in corners...

This led to developing an inferior low esteem introvert child and everyone was shocked by this change...

Self-belief system started destructive mode and yes intensity was the same...

Since he never knew why he had become a person for what people used to brag about, definitely he didn't know, why he lost all his charm and talent, although rest all things were same...

Observing the disastrous change his Dad was mature enough to counsel him and after understanding the whole storyline, smiled. patted on his back and explained the biological systems where" if you can write with right hand but not with left-hand doesn't make you a below average or inferior person, similarly, timings and perfections for two-hand varies and it doesn't lead to any disorder or weakness!!

The belief system was once again stable and started operating in a constructive manner!!

The Hero Child was once again a Hero Child!!!