Terrible Childhood

Childhood matters for growth and development of any child. Child is a miniature adult. Child's memory is called "Tabula Rassa" meaning Clean Slate. The way you develop child's memory, his/her future shapes accordingly. Most of the child's cognitive development is halted due to mis-parenting and faulty early Childhood care and development,

I am one of the child of faulty mis-parenting and faulty Childhood care and development. Every child wish to relive his/her childhood. I never wish to relive my childhood. It was terrible phase of my life. A black dot in my journey of life. I wish to delete those terrible memories. But we should bring out those black memories for sake of future generation. Present and future parents should learn from this mal adaptive behaviour and take utmost care of child. It is said today's child is tomorrow's future and citizen.

Particularly I wish to recollect and narrate incidences of my childhood. Both my parents used to beat me like anything. I used to hide before big boxes so that I will not be caught and beaten up. Automatically tears appear of me eyes recounting those bad memories. I was a good student. I used to score highest mark in school. I never used to do any mischief or bad thing. Still my parents used to beat me like anything. They used to beat me with wooden stick, steel rod, my cricket bat and what not. I used to cry whole night with pain. 

I could not know till date what was my fault. Now, when I Ask them, they are saying it was their low education level and frustration of husband-wife quarrel. Learning form here is education is very important for leading a normal life and child is not the object where anyone can manifest their frustration. Afterall, Child is also a human being. Just because child is tiny in nature and could not revolt, they will be beaten and tortured like anything. How far it is logical.

My sincere appeal to every parents with folded hands, please do not beat any child. If they are doing any thing wrong and not concentration on studies, kindly explain them. Please do not beat your child. It ruins his/her entire life and they live with this stigma forever. Please understand the seriousness of the matter. Thank You.