Does That Really Define Me?

Humans judge. That is one simple truth. We judge. We judge without knowing the reality of one's life. We judge without knowing what is happening behind the scenes. We define people based on rumours and perceptions and accusations, not based on their personality, their nature. 

My relationship status does not define me. My ex-boyfriends don't define me. The rumours flowing through the air don't define me. What really defines me is my passion for horses, for all animals. My passion and aspiration to become an equine veterinarian. What defines me is my kindness, my affection, my helpfulness and love. What defines me is my love and passion for books, reading and writing, my passion for mountains and trekking. 

These are the things that define me and not some of your general BS. 

It's not that I don't judge people, I do. But I judge them based on what is the truth. So go ahead. Judge. But don't hurt someone's sentiments. Don't judge them based on false pretences.