True love is like finally getting employed in an organisation, the kind of place you always had been wishing or praying for where you have the opportunity to re-invent yourself to work and grow there without getting stagnant and you don't feel any more necessity to hunt anywhere else.
Seeking Validation from everyone and all the time is only going to make you a SLAVE ! ... And freedom is precious !
The world has indeed become a funny cum weird place ... You genuinely be nice and the world thinks you have some vested interests or trying to butter them up & if you keep to yourself , the world thinks how arrogant , rude you are.