Wise Use Of Libido

Once upon a time, a couple was living in Laxmipur. They have only a son aged about 8 years. His name was Hari. His parents admitted him to a Gurukul Ashram situated near Baranasi where the educational system was as per ancient Indology. Hari started his student career concentrating on his devoted mind and heart. Gradually after 15 years of his Ashramite career being a self-sufficient young man of 24 years old he came back to his native place i. e. Laxmipur as he had completed the courses of study. As he was a student of Aryan culture his character and behaviour were very attractive with strict moralistic discipline.

After getting back their only son, the parents of Hari were very happy and wanted to make Hari married as soon as possible because they had ample assets and sources of income to maintain their daughter-in-law. But told his parents, " Please try to understand. Whatever properties and wealth my father has hoarded for me are not earned by me. I want to earn my bread and butter by virtue of my own sweet labour so that I can stand on my own feet. Please don't disturb me now. "

Again Dam Babu, Hari's father who was a famous priest of a Shiv Temple, tried to convince Hari, " Dear son you are my only son. I want to see grandchildren. Your mother also wants the same. She is a good housewife who needs assistance in her domestic work. " Hari retorted, " Nowadays in the modern atmosphere if a qualified modern girl will come to our house she must be anxious to cope with the situation. She may look down upon us, especially me, when she will no that all these belongings owned by you, not by me who is a dependant son, then she may insult me in front of others." Then his father suggested to Hari, " Yes I agree with your temperament. We have got sufficient landed properties including 20 acres of cultivated land and 10 acres of residential plots. As you are a Sanskrit scholar with strict moral discipline you may manage our paternal properties so as to derive income out of these. So you need not search for other jobs as nowadays every service field requires computer education which you lack. Mind it carefully. If you want to stand on your own feet then you may do as per my advice as a father. "

Hari kept quiet for some time and replied, " OK Father I must accept your advice and do accordingly. " Dam Pandit was too much glad to hear his son's consent. In the meantime, many proposals of marriage started coming to him. Many fathers of mature girls solicited Dam babu to accept their proposals for the marriage of their daughters with Hari at the earliest as Hari was a handsome and qualified young man with strong moral character. As Hari was unwilling he requested them to wait for at least five years.

Likewise, one year passed on. Hari faced a number of interviews and tests after completing PGDCA. Finally, he got a job in a nearby college as a Sanskrit Teacher. Simultaneously he established a Shoe Factory on his paternal properties registered in the name of his mother as a side income. He also established a dairy farm and a farm on the barren barren lands that belong to his ancestors. Many young men and a young ladies got employment facilities to earn their livelihood. Some of the glamorous modern young girls tried to entice Hari but failed in their attempts. Heri was strongly determined to maintain celibacy up to his marriage without breaking. He was a Yogic practitioner also.

One day a local millionaire approached Dam Pandit with a proposal as he wanted his daughter to marry his son Hari. But again Hari denied it and stuck to his job sincerely. But that millionaire's daughter was so stubborn that by hook or crook she wanted to impress Hari. To fulfil her purpose she used to ply to the farm yards. Her style of living was wanton and careless due to the power of exorbitant wealth. Always she was plying to the office of Hari and willing to impress him at any cost. But Hari was headstrong and could never accept her, the wanton wealthy girl, sex appeal. Moreover, Hari made all known about her wanton activities in her drunken stage. One day Hari convinced the wanton daughter of the millionaire, " You are an Indian girl. Your father may be a most wealthy industrialist in the area wherefore your gestures and get-ups are so. Nevertheless, you are an aristocratic and educated girl, you should be self-disciplined and courteous. If you want to make your household you may request your dad and mom to arrange for your marriage as soon as possible. Why are you behaving like this which is very shameful to an educated Indian young girl? So realise what I am advising you. From now on never try to come to me. I don't belong to that category of Indian youth who might have sexual relations with any virgin or woman before sacred marriage. Mind it and do accordingly henceforth. "

After hearing such type of words from Hari's mouth Lina, the wanton girl suddenly left the place and go away by riding in her fiat car. Since that day she again did not ply to the farmhouse of Hari.

All the neighbouring persons and farm workers appreciated Hari for his strong character and celibacy. The next day Mr Khitish, the millionaire of the area arrived suddenly at Dam Pandit's house in the morning and begged apology for the misconduct of his daughter, Lily. About twenty numbers of well-known persons of the locality were accompanied by him who confirmed Dam Pandit about the chastity of Lily that she was a virgin girl who had no any illicit affairs with anybody as far as their knowledge approach. Moreover, she was only loving Hari wholeheartedly for a long.

Then Mr Khitish, the millionaire. told Dam babu, " My daughter is pure. As she is my only issue I had been more affectionate to her after the death of her mother five years ago. She is my most affectionate daughter and well-behaved. But while she drinks in the bar with her bosom pals she becomes a little bit irrational. Only it is her shortcoming. However, she is deeply impressed by Hari's personality. She is a graduate in domestic science, and veterinary science and completed courses in Animal Husbandry too. Please forgive her for her mischief. Basically, she is a good girl. I request your noble selves to accept my daughter as your daughter-in-law which must be a boon for me dear Dam babu, please. "

All the neighbouring persons and farm workers who surrounded Hari and his father knew the fact about Ms Lily properly and advised Dam Priest, " Dam babu we confirm you that Ms Lily is a polished girl hailed from a richer family. So according to her father, Khitish Babu her lifestyle is also luxurious. Lily also heartily loves your son. Now you remove any doubt about Lily. Please give Harish Babu a clear-cut undertaking for the marriage of your son to Lily. Lily is undoubtedly a good candidate for Hari. Please never miss this chance Dam, Jee. "

Gradually after taking into account the clarifications of the gathering persons Harish Babu told the crowding men and women, " Yes I agree with the proposal submitted by Mr Harish babu. During any of the ensuing zodiac days, I will arrange the marriage ceremony. " Then he confirmed Harish Babu, " Yes I agree to accept Lily as my daughter-in-law. You also give your own opinion. " Then Mr Harish told, " Yes I cooperate with you always and agree with you on this suspicious issue. Everything must be well enough by the grace of Lord Jagannath in the long run. It is your greatness to accept my Lily and I also think myself too much lucky to have Hari as my beloved son-in-law. So it is OK now it is 10 am. I have some urgent work. Please let me go soon. " Harish Babu hugged Dam babu smilingly and received goodbyes from all and drove away.

After 2 months marriage ceremony of Hari and Lina was over with pomp and grandeur. A wave of a blissful jolt was swaying over all the family members. Entertainment programs were in full swing. All were happy with these matrimonial functions. In this way one year is completed. Both the newly married couple were overjoyed by the incoming of a baby girl into the house of Dam Pandit. The inborn glaze on the face of the baby amazed the kith and kins who were present at the time of delivery. Hospital staff members praised the couple for having such type of handsome healthy baby too. After being discharged from the maternity ward after a week, the couple came back home. Harish babu invited a renowned spiritual saint from Hrishikesh, Himalayas who saw and forecasted, " Oh she is a very fine baby. She is born out of the Effulgence of celibacy of Hari babu as a boon from the blue to your family. In future, this baby will enlighten your family as well as the environment with an extraordinary effulgence of premiere Sanatani culture. I bless the little lass to be a paramount of proper feminine qualities eventually by keeping up the glory of women's race without deviation. Stay blessed forever my dear baby. " Dam Pandit's and Harish's family members and relatives felt ecstasy for the sacred union of two souls after having a girl descendant which might be followed by a boy as was cordially expected by all the elders. In this context, Mr Hari experienced the appropriate and wise human libido consequently and prayed to Almighty Jagannathjee to build the character of his progeny and to make her well to do in future.

N. B. Libido is a unique creation in human beings bestowed by God which specifically meant for keeping up a family lineage restricted within monogamous activities and not for a wanton passionate enjoyment. Then libido, the divine creation, must be a boon instead of a curse for the mankind.