Will Men Ever Mature?

Being single these last few years has shown me that men, even men my own age have not grown up. I have realized that it's so many men on dating sites, of all different ages, races, and all religions. It's especially rings true after a text from a man yesterday who first asked if I would do a threesome, then when I said no he asked what about just with him and when I said I wasn't looking for a hookup he asked if I would like to see if first before I made my decision. Yugghh! Definitely not!

Come at me if you want about this, but the truth will always be the truth and trust me I can't make this shit up, even I'm not that good of a writer.

Now, because of all the haters that will say what about women? I don't know about women, I've never dated one…yet.

And no, I am not man bashing as I know some amazing men. Men who step up, who would never think of sending a dick pic. Good, honest men are out there and I know that. Hell, I was raised by good men, my dad, my step dad and my God father, so I know this to be a fact. 

So just to let you know I am not dogging all men but….

if the shoe fits, lace that bitch up and wear it.

Just saying….

I write about these things to let women know that they are not alone out here and secondly so I may try to get some insight on why they do what they do. I know I have many wonderful male readers and so I am trying to figure this out, and hoping for your help.

So here is a list of questions that me and my female friends keep asking each other.

Why say you want a relationship when you clearly don't?

Why pursue a woman and then get her and stop?

Why especially at this age, wine and dine a woman, pretend to be something that you're not until you get the "Cookie" and then you become distant and start ghosting her?

Why send her a dick pic? Why? Why??

Why play games? Just say I'm only looking for a hookup. Be honest, we would respect you more for that.

Why on a dating site approach a woman and when she answers, and poof you're gone?

Why keep texting her and never ask her out? You know my stance on this, if I wanted a pen pal I'd write to someone in prison.

Why catfish someone? Seriously?? Get a life!

You would think that men would at some point grow up, that they would want to settle down like they "say" they do. Why play games especially at this age? Who has time for that shit? I played games in high school or college hello! I am a grown ass woman with a life, I don't have time for games. This is why so many women are done with dating and done with men. They are tired of the games.

So today my friends, especially my male friends, help a sister out here. Let us know why your friends, your cousins, your basketball buddies do this kind of crap.

We are looking to get some clarity of why men don't seem to wanna grow up.

And for you good ones out there, talk to your boys, explain to them how to treat a woman. Teach the next generation to do better.

Like I say at the end of every blog "Be the change you want to see"