Why not...before marriage

"But Maa....just think twice!"

Monita said quite softly.

"Now just a few more days... Then your B.Ed. will be complete. Then if you want, you can do a job for experience in these six months, or if Dinesh's family members want, you can even after marriage. You can get a job!"

"That's right, mom, I have been called as an adhoc teacher from the school where I went for practice teaching. Just like my B. Ed. It will be the last paper, I will go and join. But mother tell me one thing then...?"

With big eyes , Monita asked her mother and deliberately kept her sentence incomplete so that Mita ji's interest would remain in her talk.

"Don't create too much suspense now. Tell me what's on your mind?"

Saying this, Meeta ji lovingly stroked the cheek of her dear daughter.

Monita hugged her mother more lovingly after getting the loving touch of her mother's hands.

And spoke softly...

"What if I will get a job after marriage?"

Seeing her actions now, who could have said that she is now a teacher after training and teaching children of a large class. Who herself was still a child, hugging her mother.

What's more... Monita was about to get married in a few months. And that's why her mother was trying to explain to her that maybe her in-laws would like her to do a job after marriage or not.

Here Monita was not able to understand when she b. Ed. If she is doing this and she will get a job later on, then why should she take permission from her in-laws to do a job after marriage?

Now how would Meeta ji explain to her beloved that this is the trend. Many in-laws clearly tell their future daughter-in-law that they want a working daughter-in-law or a domestic daughter-in-law for their son. But here Dinesh's family had already made it clear that they want a domestic daughter-in-law because Kalyani ji's health is not good.

Actually, Dinesh's mother Kalyani had a spinal problem and for the last few years she started feeling some discomfort in walking properly. His treatment was going on but the speed of improvement was very slow. With great difficulty she could only do her work.

In such a situation, he needed an educated and sensible daughter-in-law to take care of the household chores and the burden of the house and to supervise the domestic help, but she should not do the job.

That's why Kalyani ji had clearly put forth her point even before the marriage was confirmed that...

After marriage, she will not be able to allow her daughter-in-law to do job as she needs daughter-in-law to take responsibility of her house.

By the way, Monita's aunt had brought Dinesh's relationship. Both the boy and his family were so special that even if Monita gave up her insistence on making a career for him, she was still going to get a lot of love from everyone. Because Kalyani ji, Monita's mother-in-law, was an outspoken woman.

Here... Monita's parents were experienced. He knew that Monita would get a lot of love and respect in that family. Only her mother-in-law Kalyani ji was now mostly ill and was lying on the bed. That's why his expectation was more than his daughter-in-law.

But Monita was not yet intelligent enough to understand all these things. He had in his mind that he just had to make his career. And somewhere in the last two meetings, Dinesh had also liked him a lot. She especially liked the candor of Dinesh's nature and the same candor was also in her future mother-in-law Kalyani. Monica and her family members understood this very well. So she also wanted to marry Dinesh and wanted to retain her job after marriage.

Well...that's the end of the debate for the day. And until the result of B.Ed was out, Monita joined the same school. Now it was four months since she was on the job. And now she had learned a lot. Along with this, some money was also deposited because his parents did not take even a single rupee from his money. So when she started buying some things of her choice in her wedding shopping, she started feeling very happy about being self-sufficient.

Being independent, Monita's personality now had a different glow and confidence. Apart from this, now his thinking was also starting to mature a bit.

So... When the date of her marriage started getting confirmed, she remembered this thing in her mind and thought that she would clearly talk to Dinesh about whether she would be allowed to do a job after marriage or not? She also wanted to know the perspective of her husband Dinesh so that she could plan her future in a thoughtful manner.

next day...

When Monita expressed her intention to meet Dinesh over the phone, he happily agreed. And after talking here and there, when Monita kept her point in front of Dinesh that...

"Dinesh ji! I want to know from you whether I will be allowed to do job even after marriage or not?"

Dinesh was a bit taken aback by Monita's asking so clearly, then said with restraint,

"Look, Monita ji! If you want, you can do a job after marriage. But you have to talk to your mother about this. Because she is sick right now and all the major decisions in our house are taken by the mother only!"

Hearing this, it occurred to Monita that we are not yet married. Then how does Kalyani ji and the house work go on? But apparently remained silent.

On one hand, Monita felt bad that she was of no importance at all. On the other hand, it felt good to know that her mother-in-law's words are respected in the family. Meaning

Dinesh's household is female dominated. That's why if Monita keeps her point tomorrow, then her point will definitely be listened to.

On that day, Monita felt very happy to meet Dinesh and Dinesh's resolved things and putting things in front without any delay... Monita liked it very much.

Now ahead she started preparing herself for the important day of her life with an open mind.

When Monita came to her in-laws house after marriage, here she saw that her mother-in-law really could not walk well. She could hardly do her personal work. Although a caretaker was kept in the house to take care of him. Beyond that there was a lack of intimacy.

Apart from this, there was a maid in the house to sweep the broom and another woman used to come to cook. Overall, he did not have to do much work directly. But she understood very well that a housewife is very much needed to look after this house smoothly.

In the next few days, she started learning a lot from her mother-in-law Kalyani ji. Even though she lived on a wheel chair, she used to give such good household tips to Monita while sitting that Monita used to get convinced by her words. Apart from this, she used to pamper Monita a lot. She used to give him good self-maintenance tips as well, which was very useful for Monita.

Within a short span of time, Monita had become so attached to Kalyani ji that she used to call her daughter many times instead of daughter-in-law. The truth was that Kalyani ji's nature was very good. She had definitely become attached to the body, but her mind was very strong.

Everything was going great. Monita was gradually adapting to the situation that...

One day her friend Shikha came to meet Monita who had come to the city to meet a relative.

Shikha also taught with Monita in the same school where Monita worked for a few months.

In small talk, Shikha said to Monita,

"Why haven't you joined a job till now? It's almost three months before your marriage. You should get a job by now!"

"But if I go to work, who will take care of my mother-in-law from behind?"

Monita said very disappointed.

Helplessness and sadness was clearly visible in his voice.

Don't know how Kalyani ji heard this thing and she became proud of her daughter-in-law that today Monita had won the heart of her mother-in-law in a way by not speaking ill of her in-laws and mother-in-law in front of her friend Shikha.

Along with this, he also sensed the helplessness of Monita's voice.

After Shikha left, she lovingly called Monita near her and started stroking her head and saying,

“My daughter, it is a matter of few more months, I am recovering so quickly with your service, that very soon I will be fully recovered and will be able to walk again. I will be able to do all my work myselfThen you must join the job wherever you want!"

"Don't leave it mummy! That will happen when it will happen. Right now I have to serve you. And I have to cure you exactly like before. Do you understand?"

After being pampered, Monita hugged her mother-in-law and said, in response, mother-in-law also replied to her with great love,

"You are very stubborn, daughter! She will accept me only after giving me massage, giving me medicine and avoiding food!"

"Mummy! You only said that I am your daughter...! I am not just your daughter-in-law. You only say that I am daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law's combo. And a daughter will serve her mother completely and till You won't be fineI will not join job anywhere. Now that your blessings are with me, I am always happy!"

right now......

You drink this hot milk immediately. Then I come to your oil and massage your knee right now!"

Here Kalyani ji was thinking that…In truth, he must have done some virtuous deed in his previous birth that he has got such a lovely daughter in the form of a daughter-in-law who is taking so much care of him.

But Kalyani ji was not satisfied with just this.

Because... Monita was taking care of Kalyani ji but she herself was going away from her dream. She gave the status of mother to her mother-in-law and started serving her as a daughter.

So... now it was his turn.

That... she should also think about the welfare of her daughter by becoming a mother.

By now Kalyani ji had understood that Monita neither has any cleverness nor does she know any kind of deceitful world. She was serving him with a pure heart. And as every woman has a desire to recognize her existence, she was seeing the same desire in Monita's eyes as well. And now she was thinking very fast about it so that the dream colors of Monita's eyes do not fade away.

If she wanted, she could ask Monita to do tuition etc. at home or do some work at home. But Monita was already employed and her dream was to go out and work. There is a difference between the two that getting ready everyday and meeting different types of people gives happiness along with many new experiences of life. Whereas doing homework and tutoring at home becomes routine in a way.

As much as Monita had enthusiasm for this.

Now... Kalyani ji's mind is doubly excited that she has to recover now and give the high sky of her dreams to her daughter-in-law as well.

Now Kalyani ji started doing physiotherapy very fast and at the same time taking care of herself separately, she also started taking medicines from this time and started saying to Monita, "SonGive a little time to yourself too, so that when you go to work tomorrow, nothing seems awkward!"

Unaware of what was going on in her mother-in-law's mind, Monita obeyed her and started focusing on her studies and increasing her knowledge for some time.

When Kalyani ji's health became much better, one day she called her son and daughter-in-law and said,

"Now CCTV cameras should be properly installed in my room and verandah and Dinesh, Monita and her father-in-law when they go to work, they can see the activities of the house and servants on CCTVAnd I can adjust and live comfortably with a house help!"

The people of the house were very happy with this and also convinced. She had already started taking her medicines etc by herself.

Now his next step was that he allowed Monita to give interviewThe month of April had started and it was time for the new school session. So Monita very easily got a job in a school near home. Now when she was going to join the job, her dreams really got wings. On the other hand, due to his service, mother-in-law had also left her wheelchair and started walking on her own. Sometimes she used to walk with a walker and sometimes she started trying to walk on her own.

On the one hand, Kalyani ji herself started running with Monita's continuous service and Sushrusa, she had also given wings to Monita's wishes.

Today, a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law became each other's support by becoming mother and daughter. And both of them went ahead in their lives and filled the sky full of happiness in their fist.

When relationships are built with sacrifice and mutual love and understanding, then mutual good is hidden in those relationships.

And....people move on. And seeing a small plant of relationship flourishes and becomes a strong tree. As Kalyani ji and Monita's relationship had become a strong relationship with love and trust.