Emotional intimacy2 mins 190 2 mins 190
Let's talk about emotional intimacy in the world where the most important thing in a relationship comes down to mostly one thing 'Sex' or we may also call it as physical intimacy.
Look around you & you will see how important it has become for the people to have sex, isn't it?
Don't get me wrong, yes I know it is a part of a relationship but has anyone thought of sharing each others thought, feelings before sharing each others body.
Is it important nowadays for the people to sit together beneath the sky, talking about life, sharing their problems, holding hands and promising each other to hold each others back till the very last breathe. Doesn't it sound more craving then having sex at first place.
Maybe that is the reason we see less of broken relationships in the past generation as compared to ours where they valued emotional intimacy before physical intimacy. Because for them maybe sex was not the only base for a true relationship.
Maybe sending nudes wasn't required at first place rather then listening to each others voice over a telephone or maybe standing near her house for hours & waiting for her to come on the window had the same excitement.
I am not against physical intimacy but before that phase experience the feeling of emotional intimacy. Before touching him/her, touch his/her soul. Before loving his/her body, love his/her soul because true love doesn't happen merely on the outer appearance of a person, it's indeed a soul connection which matters for a relationship to sustain!!